One of the most common questions I get from clients is, “What should I wear?” The good news is, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer—your boudoir session is all about you, so your outfits should reflect your personality, your style, and what makes you feel amazing. Whether you love lace and silk or prefer a cozy sweater, the key is choosing pieces that make you feel confident, beautiful, and true to yourself.

To help you prepare, here’s a guide to choosing the perfect outfits for your boudoir session.

1. Start with What Makes You Feel Confident

The first and most important rule for choosing your boudoir outfits is simple: wear what makes you feel good. If you don’t feel comfortable in something, it’s going to show in your photos. On the flip side, when you wear something that makes you feel amazing, that confidence will shine through.

Think about the pieces in your wardrobe that make you feel your best. Maybe it’s a favorite pair of jeans that hugs your curves just right, or a silky robe that makes you feel elegant. Start there and build from what you already love.

2. Lingerie: Classic and Timeless

Lingerie is a classic choice for boudoir sessions, and for good reason—it’s designed to make you feel sexy and confident. Here are a few popular options to consider:

Bodysuits: Flattering on all body types, bodysuits provide structure and highlight your curves beautifully. Choose one with lace, sheer panels, or bold cutouts for added flair.
Two-Piece Sets: A matching bra and panty set is simple, classic, and always stunning. Look for pieces with interesting textures, like lace or satin, to add visual interest.
Corsets or Bustiers: These structured pieces accentuate your waist and create a dramatic, feminine silhouette. Pair them with stockings or thigh-highs for a touch of elegance.

If you’re not sure what style suits you best, bring a few options to your session. I’ll help you choose the ones that work best with your body and the look you want to create.

3. Go Beyond Lingerie

Boudoir isn’t just about lingerie! If lace and silk aren’t your thing, there are plenty of other options that can be just as stunning:

Oversized Sweaters: A soft, slouchy sweater paired with bare legs or knee-high socks can create a cozy, intimate vibe.
Button-Up Shirts: Borrow one from your partner’s closet or bring your own. An oversized button-up shirt can be styled in so many ways and adds a playful, flirty touch.
Silky Robes: A robe is not only a great layering piece but also looks stunning on its own. Choose one with lace details or a rich, luxurious fabric.
Jeans or Shorts: Pair them with a bralette or crop top for a casual, effortless look that still feels sexy.

Remember, boudoir is about you, so if lingerie isn’t your thing, don’t feel like you have to wear it.

4. Add Accessories for Extra Drama

Accessories can take your boudoir outfits to the next level. Think about adding:

Stockings or Thigh-Highs: These are a classic boudoir staple that add a touch of elegance and allure.
Heels: A great pair of heels can elongate your legs and give you a boost of confidence.
Jewelry: Statement earrings, a delicate necklace, or even a bold bracelet can add an extra layer of sophistication to your look.
Hats or Scarves: These can be playful props that add personality to your session.

5. Choose Colors That Flatter You

When selecting outfits, think about colors that complement your skin tone and make you feel radiant. Jewel tones like emerald green, deep burgundy, and navy blue are universally flattering, while classic black is always a safe (and stunning) choice.

If you’re drawn to softer looks, blush pinks, whites, and creams create a romantic, ethereal vibe. And don’t be afraid to mix and match colors and textures to create variety in your photos.

6. Bring Options

One of the best ways to prepare for your session is to bring multiple outfit choices. Having a variety of pieces allows us to mix and match, experiment with different looks, and ensure we capture a range of styles.

Typically, I recommend bringing at least 3–5 outfits. This could include a mix of lingerie, casual pieces, and accessories to create a variety of looks during your session.

7. Consider the Details

When planning your outfits, don’t forget the little details! Make sure everything fits well and feels comfortable. If you’re wearing stockings or heels, try them on beforehand to ensure they work with your chosen outfits.

Also, consider your nails and skin. A simple, neutral manicure and moisturized skin can make a big difference in how polished your final photos look.

8. Trust the Process

It’s normal to feel unsure about what to wear or to worry if you’ve made the right choices. That’s why I’m here! I’ll work with you to select the outfits that best suit your body, style, and the vision you have for your session.

No matter what you wear, the most important thing is how you feel. When you feel confident and comfortable, that’s what shines through in your photos.

Your Session, Your Style

Boudoir is all about celebrating you, and your outfits are a big part of that celebration. Whether you want to go all out with glamorous lingerie or keep it simple and cozy, the most important thing is that you feel like yourself.

If you’re still unsure about what to bring, don’t worry—I’ll guide you every step of the way. Together, we’ll create looks that make you feel amazing and capture the best version of you.

Remember, this session is about more than just photos—it’s about confidence, self-love, and celebrating who you are right now. And no matter what you wear, I promise you’ll look incredible.

What to Wear for Your Boudoir Session: A Guide to Choosing the Perfect Outfits